Making Room for the New: Letting Go to Create Space
- Michelle D'Ambra
- Oct 28, 2023
- 2 min read
Updated: Dec 13, 2025

Growth begins when we create space.
There’s something about this time of year that naturally invites reflection. It feels like a pause point—a chance to take inventory, clear what’s no longer serving us, and intentionally create space for what’s next.
Moving recently reminded me of this in a very tangible way. While moving is stressful and requires a lot of effort, it’s also one of the most effective ways to let go. Clutter has a way of quietly taking over our surroundings—and, often, our mental space too. When we take the time to clear our environment, we’re not just organizing things; we’re opening the door for something new to enter.
Sometimes what we’re hoping will come into our lives can’t find its way in because we haven’t made room—physically or emotionally.
A few months ago, I finally tackled a task that had been sitting on my to-do list for six years: organizing my paper documents. I scanned what I needed, shredded the rest, and simplified the system. It took about two weeks, but the sense of relief afterward was worth every minute. What once felt overwhelming is now manageable—and easier to maintain going forward.
It was a good reminder: it’s never too late to start or finish something that matters to you.
Often, the hardest part is simply getting started. When we think in terms of big goals—organize my life, get unstuck, make changes—it can feel daunting. But when we shift the language from “goal” to “task,” things become more approachable.
Try writing a list of what you want to work on, then break it down into smaller, doable steps. Tasks feel less intimidating than goals, and each completed step builds momentum. Sharing your list with someone you trust can also help with accountability and encouragement.

“People with goals succeed because they know where they are going” – Earl Nightingale
That sense of accomplishment after completing even one small task can be incredibly motivating. It certainly is for me. The key is to keep your expectations realistic. Especially if you’re in a season of healing, your goals may look less like productivity and more like letting go—of old patterns, emotions, or beliefs that have kept you stuck.
There’s a balance to be found between pushing too hard and becoming too idle. I’ve always believed that how we spend our free time quietly shapes our future. Constant distraction—endless scrolling, background TV, or numbing habits—can leave us feeling drained rather than restored.
That doesn’t mean we should be working all the time. Rest is essential. But too much idleness can be exhausting in its own way when it pulls us away from living in alignment with who we want to become.
Sometimes making room for the new doesn’t require doing more.
It simply requires letting go.





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